Sorry in advance for rant !
My DD is 13 and at home she can be pretty challenging but I think no more than the usual teenager (my first teen!so can't be to sure!). She generally complies with the usual "gooddd your so unfair ,everyine else can do what they want" ,ranting and raving when cant get own way,glued to her mobile!,and has a tendency to sound like a broken record if she wants something or someones annoyed herect But on the other hand can be very sunny natured and a delight! She has always been a live wire and doesnt do down time she is always on the go and would be with her friends 24/7 if i let her she does lots of out of school activities .I am not concerned about the above what I am concerned about is school!
She is a completly different character at school and I am finding it soul destroying hearing so many negative things ! She has always struggled academically and does have additional learning needs but no statement . She has always had a very poor memory and found it hard to concentrate but since secondary she has become extremly challenging in the classroom setting . The teachers tell me she refuses additional support (she finds it embarassing being singled out or having resources!) ,she is disruptive ,never concentrates ,loses everything , forgets what shes doing is rude and is often so disruptive she is removed to work in iscolation as her behaviour prevents the others from working .Even in iscolation with a 1-1 she doesnt complete work and decides she cant do it before shes even seen what the task is . She has made no academic progress for ages ! I feel its down to low self esteem but school think its a bad attitude !They have reffered her to CAHMS who we are due to see soon!
I thought it was usually the other way round but she is lovely at home (unless homework needs doing!!) and the complete opposite at school !Gets on very well with my OH and isnt doing anything rebellious !
Has anyone had a similar situation?!
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lucydaniels4658 · 16/05/2014 19:16
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