Really need some help here please : (
I left my EA husband last march and we are now divorced. He is now engaged to his new partner. He was distraught when I left him and tried to get youngest DS to get me to take him back, promised DS that he would spend every weekend with him but then he met new woman after 5 weeks and hasnt looked back and has virtually now abandoned DS. DS gets maybe a text every 4 weeks. Exh asks to meet up but leaves it so late that DCs have other arrangements.
DS is 15 and now has periods of extreme anger, but tonight he was just sobbing his heart out, saying how much he misses his dad and loves him.
We all find it very difficult to talk to my ex-h as he is never wrong and this whole situation is my fault so I would find it hard to tell exh how DS is suffering. I am also still afraid of him and how manipulative he can be. But I hate to see my DS suffering so much, it is now beginning to stop my ability to move on.
Meanwhile exh is living the high life with his new partner and seems to have forgotten about his DCs, the other 2 are older and do not live at home. He has not sent any of them even a text on their birthdays.
DS has agreed to see a counsellor which is a start but I am at my wits end, feel like I have just got through the year from hell after a horrible divorce but still DS cant move on.
Any advice please?
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catkin14 · 11/05/2014 22:18
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