Hi
First time posting on here and I haven't got the hang of the abbreviations so I'm sorry if this makes for long winded reading!
I have an 18 year old daughter who has been in a relationship for 18 months with a boy (also 18). Everything seems to be going well although there have been moments when I've thought his behaviour a little 'off' (drinking, arrogance, etc) but have put this down to his age, haven't interrupted and just let them get on with it which has worked ok up till now.
A couple of nights ago, he went out with his friends and ended up getting himself arrested for drink driving (he smashed his car up and was twice over the legal limit). Thankfully, he wasn't hurt.
However, I'm struggling with how to advise my daughter on this. My initial response is to say she should get out of the relationship, he's on a downward spiral, etc. But when I think about it I think that's probably a knee jerk reaction. She's a very sensible girl and is now taking her time to consider her options, but we are very close and I know she will ask my opinion on what she should do. I think I have to be very careful and diplomatic (which isn't necessarily my strong point!!).
How would you handle this?
Lel
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lel74 · 21/11/2013 16:05
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