ds 17 recently moved into a shared student house. He made friends with one of the other guys but has since found out that he has drug problems including smoking opium.
He feels this guy is sapping his energy as he is on such a downer. He is not respecting Ds's limits, walking into his room when he wants, asking to borrow money and is constantly going on about how down and how fucked up his life is.
Ds feels sorry for him but says he feels he can't say no to him because it makes him feel like an arsehole. DS says the situation is making him depressed as he moved away to start a new life and is struggling himself to adapt to finding new friends, looking after himself etc. and doesn't want to be constantly confronted with this guy.
Ds wants to maybe move out but I have paid rent up until Christmas. He can get out of his contract mid january.. I also had a real trouble finding him a place because of his age. Should I get him out of there , or is this a chance for him, with our support, to learn how to be assertive and set limits ??? The other students are nice but keep to themsleves.
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casualvacancy · 19/11/2013 14:53
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