Hi there
I wanted to get some opinions on behalf of my sister, who has a (usually) lovely son of 19. Her and her husband (his step dad) have just had their first holiday without him and came back to find the house completely trashed. We're not just talking about forgetting to hoover, but serious filth and damage. Seems he has been on a drunken binge for two solid weeks and had a party a week ago that he hasn't bothered to clean up after. He is the sweetest, loveliest lad (everyone thinks so)and this is so shocking because he hasn't even apologised. My sis cried for ages last night and told him that she has never been more ashamed. Doesn't have a clue how she sould handle it. It's like he has been taken over by someone else. Without wanting to make too much of it, she is worried that he has a serious drink problem developing. There have been other incidents of getting so pissed he wet his bed, which my sis was horrified about. We have been hoping it was normal, silly laddish behaviour - a phase. He has a job, which he seems to be coping with 100% and is usually a very caring lad. is it possible to punish a 19 year old? How can they get through this?
thanks in advance.
Does anyone have any views on this? Would be so much appreciated.
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Axolotl · 10/07/2006 11:52
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