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she is turning in to a stalker lol

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2shoes · 09/07/2006 22:11

remeber my thread about ds and his first girlfriend. she dumped him and has done nothing but text him since(he is playing it cool)

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Toothache · 09/07/2006 22:12

lol tell her to have some dignity!!!

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2shoes · 09/07/2006 22:27

it;s getting past funny. she has texted him about 6 times tonight.told him to ring her as she had something to tell him so he rang her she didn't pick up. now keeps texting him(he's in bed and p[hone is on charge .
feel like strangling her at the mo

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Toothache · 09/07/2006 22:36

How old are they? Just for me to get this into perspective.
I was engaged just before my 16th birthday to an 18 year old. He was my 1st love, the love of my life! I used to play the 'dumping him' game when he'd hurt me. It didn't normally backfire and he'd come crawling back... but one time he didn't. We didn't have mobiles then, but if we had I'd have been texting him wondering why he wasn't coming a crawling! Do you think she was calling his bluff and its backfired?

We split a year after we got engaged, his decision and I was devastated!

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2shoes · 09/07/2006 22:40

no they never even went out. she didn't want to tell her friends. he asked her to she dumped him. he was so not bothered.
since then she has been texting him last night on msn she was going on about stabbing her self!! she left him a text about hearing screams. she is 12 and he is 14.
jut wish she would leave him alone, he is just not interested.
could understand if she wanted him back but I think she is just playing games.
I am so new to all this

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Toothache · 09/07/2006 22:41

At 12 and 14 I'm sure she'll get bored soon enough!!!

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2shoes · 09/07/2006 22:44

fingers crossed

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Toothache · 09/07/2006 22:45

She's 12!! She's probably more worried about which tampon brand to use when her periods start and whether her breasts will EVER be more than an AA cup!

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singledadofthree · 09/07/2006 22:46

she sounds normal enough - didnt you have a crush at that age? - expect it'll wear off soon enough - are they at the same school? is very cool for her but his mates will take the mick something rotten - you could always nick his phone

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Toothache · 09/07/2006 22:47

Yeah nick his phone and text back that she was baaaaaaaad kisser! She'll never text him again.

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2shoes · 09/07/2006 22:49

you are so right thanks
doen't make sense as to why she dumped him, I do think she wants him to chase her and he just isn't
omg i am now remebering what i was like at that age so no worried anymore lol

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ginmummy · 09/07/2006 22:52

Toothache - you should have said that she had bad breath too! That would have really done the trick! She'll have either backed off completely or you'll go home tomorrow to the family pet in a cauldron on the stove!!

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2shoes · 09/07/2006 22:54

thank god we haven't got a rabbit

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2shoes · 11/07/2006 12:15

have started to get a bit worried about her.
she keeps on about knives and stabbing herself. also has said some odd things to ds on msn.
I have suggested he has a word with his head of year(not hers) who is really nice. as bit concerned.

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mell2 · 11/07/2006 12:29

Good idea - i would be a bit worried if she is talking like that!

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2shoes · 11/07/2006 15:25

proud of him he saw his head of year and showed her the texts. so she will be dealing with it.
hopefully it was all a wind up, but better to be safe than sorry