It's ds1's (13) school trip to Alton Towers tomorrow, it's been greatly anticipated. He gets £10 a month pocket money which he always puts straight on his phone, this weekend he has had a fiver off his dad which he spent on a game and £2 off his Grandma whcih he still has. We have said that if he does some jobs we will give him some more money as we know that with just £2 when his mates have got more he's not going to have as good a day. He won't be able to buy lunch, he will have to take sandwiches, he won't be able to buy the photos of him and his mates on rides etc etc.
He has tidied his sock drawer for a pound and watered all 11 of my tubs for another pound and is now refusing to do anything else. He doesn't see why he should. He doesn't see why we can't just give him the money.
I wnat him to have a good day and we were thinking of enough jobs to give him a tenner or so and as you can see we were hardly getting him to sweep the chimney. When ds1 (9) had his trip a while back he did jobs to get £5 which was the maximum they could take.
I know in the mornign when I only give him £2 for a day out I'll feel really crap - what would you do?
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Quick opinions needed - should I give ds spends for school trip?
lilibet · 03/07/2006 20:28
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