A bit of background -
I split up from dd's father when she was 3,due to DA,met my dh a year later,he has always been a loving&supportive father&treated her like his own.She loves him very much.Contact with her father has always been off&on,but he maintains some sort of relationship with her&she enjoys going to see him.
Since reaching puberty a couple of years ago,she is now 13 btw,she has had anger issues which have got progressively worse.I took her to the GP in the summer hols& she prescribed the pill to help with her moods.But the anger is really worrying,she does not get violent towards us but screams like a banshee,hits walls,hits herself,pulls her hair&bites herself.I try to talk her down but when the 'red mist' descends we usually have to let it run its course.When it is over she is upset&just says she cannot control what she is feeling at the time
We have spoken to school about this(she has NO anger issues at school&they have no behavioural problems with her whatsoever)&she has attended their anger management group,but they said she did not need to attend any more as she had no problems?!?
This anger only seems to manifest at home,partly we think because it is where she feels safe?
But as it is becoming worse I was thinking of asking for a referral to CAMHS,as I am at a loss as to how to help her now&this is upsetting us all(especially her sister who has SN)
Who can we turn to before it gets worse????
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Does DD need a referral to CAHMS?
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chickensaresafehere · 23/09/2013 09:16
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