Hi my 16 year old Son met a girl about a month ago & with the help of her Mother has had a complete personality change.
I have found out that the Mother has been inboxing him through facebook & talking about to him about his relationship with her daughter, she has been talking about him having a intimate relationship with her daughter & also encouraging my Son (who is a virgin) to lie to me & also arranging to meet them both & have talks to them both about their relationship (her daughter is 15 years & 11 months old). In a two week period the Mother inboxed my son 332 pages full of messages – & it only stopped as I found out about them & put a stop to it. My Son was such as lovely young lad who treated his Mam & Dad with kindness & respect, I was so proud of him, but since this woman has been involved in his life he has changed completely – to me feels like he has been brainwashes by her. If she say’s jump he will say how high. I have all the messages she sent him & I am now at the stage of going to Social Services for help, he has left our house today to go & stay with my sister in law for a few days & he has informed us that he is not coming back home – I am at my wits end, has anyone got any advice for me please.
Ps I have shown the messages the mother sent my son to a few close friends & they have all said that it looks like she was grooming him for her daughter.
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tama13 · 21/09/2013 05:49
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