Any idea? After a year of my son ( a very intelligent able person) being at home having had a close breakdown - doctors say he didnt actually have one - instead was a severe dose of 'teenagerism' with some issues that were helpd a bit by 2 lots of counselling and that if he wanted to go back to school he would and he'd be fine. Well he's gone back and by week 2 has got into trouble and is now excluded for 3 wks.Still having said he wants to go back to school he is not doing any of the school work that he needs to. He simply isn''t applying himself - at anything -school/home/fun- I mean anything -except surfing the net. He tunes out /looses concentration - even on ordinary family chat. We are turning of the internet and are speaking to him frankly - detailing his options - school / ano type f school/or go to work - sitting/dossing around at home doing zero is not an option. Short of throwing him out of the house / sending him on a boot camp, we are bereft of any solutions.We have done everything the doctors, therapists etc have told us. He does not make the connection that effort is required and can't see the point of anything and is critical of the world and the way it functions. Part of me continues to think he is depressed and I know he is very very angry - his lack of action being a form of restraining himself from lashing out. Part of me thinks he has become just plain lazy.I know some of this is teenagerism. but his twin brother is not like this neither the 1000 boys in his school - it's not normlal, although I know it happens. Pl can anyone help with any ideas? We are at the end of our tether.
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