So I have just done a random check of DD (13) Facebook. She knows I check every so often, we've agreed I should do this but that I won't comment or snoop unless I'm concerned. Anyway, she had told me about this lad she had been chatting to who she seemed to really like, they had been talking yesterday afternoon, all the usual stuff, when all of a sudden the conversation turns explicit and this boy is sending really obscene messages about what he will do to her. He's 13 too, I'm no prude but this is really disgusting and I just don't know what gives boys the right to think they can talk to girls this way! She sent one reply suggesting she would let him do something which I am really cross with her for but then when he carried the conversation on she ended it pretty abruptly.
I have messaged this boy saying that if he sends any more indecent messages to her I will be going into school and having words and pointing out that what he is doing is illegal. But what should I say to my daughter? She was less at fault with him but she did day something she really shouldn't. I want to strike a balance between reading the riot act and being sympathetic if she was put in a situation she didn't want to be in. She thought this boy was really nice so I imagine she's confused.
I've locked her out of FB and phone will be being confiscated after school as well until I'm satisfied she's got the message. How to approach this though?
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MaryRose · 17/09/2013 13:25
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