Dd, 15, and all but one of her friends (let's call her Hayley) use good local bus/tram service all the time, it's easy, quick, convenient. They go out in the evenings and, within certain conditions (safe location, not too late etc) they come home by bus or tram.
Hayley lives less than 5mins walk from us.
However, Hayley's mum insists on always picking Hayley up by car, from everywhere, including from our house, always. Even on a sunny afternoon, if Hayley's at ours, her mum will come and pick her up by car.
If our dd is out with Hayley, Hayley's mum obviously - kindly- gives our dd a lift home too, although in Dd's, and our opinion, it's hardly ever necessary.
When Dd is out on a weekend, DH and me would like to go out for a drink, or stay in, have a meal, glass of wine. Not get bladdered, you understand, just have a small sociable drink. This is fine when Dd's out with other friends,but if she's out with Hayley, Hayley's mum inevitably picks Hayley and others up. So we feel like we have to take our turn in picking up the kids, even though we don't really have to pick them up in the car at all!
Should we feel guilty about this, and take our turn at picking them up whenever Hayley's involved, or is it just Hayley's mum's choice and up to her if she wants to give our Dd a lift home every time they go out together?
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HmmmIwonder · 06/09/2013 16:01
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