Just wondered what you opinions where?
My daughter has always been a strange one and I except her as an individual as I was at her age.
But she has become quite immature for her age and not at all street wise which is difficult for me as when she was younger she was quite the opposite and very mature for her age. I'm ok that she immature but it just makes me a bit maybe over protective and I'm finding it harder to let go as I worry about what she will do with too much freedom, especially on the web!
It's not so much the cosplay side that worries me but this Lolita (living doll thing). I know that she views it as innocent and wants to dress up for the fun side and to express her love of the Japanese Anime that she loves which I get and I'm ok with that. I couldn't give a monkeys what she wears as long as she's happy. But I do care about weirdos online that see these girls in the wrong way.
I have let her cosplay once at a convention which I attended. But it seems I have now given her a taste of a world she wants to get more involved with and part of me wants for her to express herself and be happy with who she is but the other part of me tells me it's not safe to allow her to dress in that way and that I should protect her.
I have half agreed to buy her an alice in wonderland lolita dress for her birthday ( a bit of a half way as she's having a tea party for her birthday so it fits in).
My husband says she can wear it at conventions and when she has freinds round etc but not around town etc.
Maybe that's just me not wanting to let go but I would be interested on thoughts on this.
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Any one else's teen into this cosplay/lolita thing?
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OhSoVintage · 31/07/2013 23:05
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