Already posted that in chat but I am hoping that there are parents further down the line who have been in a similar situation than us.
'Mummy I want to be dead' That's what ds1 has told me several times in the last couples of months.
Not in a desperate way. Just very matter of fact. 'I don't like my life. I wish I was dead'.
At the same time, he still laughs and smiles. Enjoys our days out and run to school in the morning.
I am not aware of any major problems at school apart from the fact he doesn't like his current teacher (but loves the one he will have next year). He has some friends, some of which he will qualify as 'really good friends'.
There has been some issues with his db who probably has AS (Awaiting for a year now for assessment to start with CAMHS). ds2 has been hard work, would go in terrible outbursts of anger when he would hit ds1. But that was a year ago and ds2 has calmed down A LOT since then. No more hitting when he is angry. He just storms off to his bedroom. But ds1 feels he still needs to do whatever ds2 wants to avoid the outbursts.
I am at loss as to what to do and how serious it is. Of course it is the sign that something isn't right but what? I could go and see my (lovely) GP but he would refer me to CAMHS and my experience with them doesn't feel me with confidence.
And I am not sure if putting the spotlight on ds1 is the right thing to do. I am pretty sure he would say he is fine to anyone HCP and then would stop talking to me about any of his feelings, which is the quite the opposite of what I would like to achieve.
ds1 will be 10yo in september.
Anyone on here with some experience of an anxious/depressed child? Or with a child saying that sort of thing? Did it hide something really terrible?
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FreshCucumber · 16/07/2013 21:59
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