I posted on these boards last year when I was deciding whether to make DS go back to school for his GCSE year. This was my thread.
I got a lot of support and some good advice. In the end I kept him away and tried to home ed him. DS was much happier away from the school environment. The school offered to recommend him to the PRS who finally started giving him lessons in January. He had an amazing teacher and with her help and lots of pushing from me at home, he sat his English and Maths exams last month.
DS has been offered a college place (almost unconditional, but getting his Maths will help) to learn a trade, starting in September. We live rurally and I'll have to drive him there 3 days a week, and maybe home as well - it's a 90 minute round trip. But it suits him well and I think he will enjoy it.
Being self employed, this will affect my availability for work. Not only that but already I don't get much time to see my DP who lives 50 mins in the opposite direction.
DS is a loner - although he has some friends online, he's never met any of them and he prefers the company of me to anyone else and positively avoids his own age group. My work takes me away overnight often, sometimes for a few days at a time. DS prefers to stay at home with his computer and the dog, although he usually has the option of coming with me.
I always feel terribly guilty about leaving him although we have good neighbours and friends who pop in, and I talk to DS every day when I'm away.
My concern is how to get through the next year. DS is a grumpy soul when things don't go his way and he is not always a delight to live with. It can be very draining.
DP is quite laid back but non committal, and I'm finding our relationship unsatisfactory as it seems to be going nowhere.
I feel really cut off by my situation and I'm itching to shake loose, travel, get a new life. I know this is selfish of me but I find the thought of the next year really difficult.
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CuttedUpPear · 15/07/2013 00:36
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