Dd14 is going through stage of loathing school and doing all she can to avoid going. She has friends there and isn't being bullied, but there are a group of really bitchy girls in her classes and she says she feels intimidated by them and feels stressed constantly by what they might do, even though they are no worse to her than anyone else. School have a very bad track record of dealing with issues - their answer to everything is to get the people concerned in and say this isn't good enough and you have to all be friends, and that's all! So I am reluctant to talk to anyone at school, especially as she is adamant that will not help and at least she is talking to me about it all at the moment. She is horribly intolerant of her brother, but I think as a knock on effect of the stress from school, in a kind of, I've had a bad day so I'll kick the cat kind of way. But that means home life can be a bit stressy too. What can I do? It's killing me to see her so unhappy and feel so powerless to help.
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