I have battled with my daughter all her life about washing. When she was little bath time was a nightmare with lots of screaming and tears.
She is now 17 yrs old, working and growing into a lovely young lady. She has lots of good qualities and I am proud of her, her bedroom is a tip but I understand that is just a teenage thing and I just close the door on it.
I can't, however, ignore the poor personal hygiene. If I didn't nag her then I'm sure she wouldn't shower at all. Sometimes she will go a whole week if I let my guard down and that includes the weeks that she has her period :-(
Her hair is long and is visibly greasy and she smells of BO and just dirty ness. If she leaves her bedroom door open you can smell it as you come up the stairs. Her work uniform is worn 6 days a week and she only parts with it occasionally for me to wash, yes the same top and trousers for 6+ days.
I have two other children, one older and one younger than DD and all of us including my husband shower every day.
I have compromised and said that every other day is ok but she will not have it. When I talk to her gently, kindly, tactfully or whatever, she says that I'm just being horrible and its horrible to say that someone is dirty etc!
Help, am I being unreasonable, I hate to think that others may be talking behind her back because they can smell her.
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17yr old Daughter won't wash!
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mrsm68 · 25/04/2013 11:08
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