Not really sure what to do anymore. I guess i just need a moan. My 13 year old son is being so horrible. He wont wash, he is aggressive, he wont tidy his room. I know its all normal teen stuff but he is so nasty. He needs new shoes every two months as he goes out of his way to destroy them. He does the same to all his clothes. He trashes his room.
His dad thinks it's funny. He left two years ago. Was very abusive towards me but never the kids. My son now thinks he can treat me like dirt just like his dad. I have a heart condition so often get tired. I work as a support worker doing very long hours. I try my best for my two boys but it never seems enough.
Tonight was the last straw. The eldest said as he is far more intelligent than me he doesn't have to listen to anything I say. He shoved me and I just feel so hurt by this. (Iguess he has a point as he has a very high Iq but it does hurt).
I'm starting to think making him live with his dad might be the best idea. I really don't know how much I can take from him to be honest. He's going to make me ill.
He used to be such a lovely boy. Kind, caring and helpful. I just wish i could get that boy back
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littlemissangrypants · 07/02/2013 19:50
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