My daughter will be 15 next April. Last week I was called into her school, where my husband and I were told by my daughter in front of the school counsellor that not only had she been having sex with her boyfriend since the early summer, but that she had had sex with another boy at the weekend, & when her boyfriend found out there had been a near riot at school.
I had been so keen to "be there" for her when she was ready to start having sex; I told her way back that it was better to have an awkward chat with me so she was on the pill, than to risk STD's or pregnancy. We talked about that kind of stuff A LOT, & I tried so hard to tread the line between not burying my head in the sand and not nosing into her private thoughts and feelings.
Her attitude has grown pretty bad over the last year and her schoolwork has been suffering, but I had put it down to just normal teenage stuff. Maybe it IS normal teenage stuff?? She doesn't have hobbies any longer, or interests in doing very much at all, and now that all of this has happened, she is grounded and no longer allowed on the internet. She is ok with this as she is getting mercilessly taunted at school over what has happened, but she is miserable and often unresponsive. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!! I don't have much contact with other parents locally, as we live on a farm and are quite isolated. Should I force her to join clubs? I can't keep her grounded forever, can I- But how can I trust her anymore? I'd really value any advice..
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mrsmclovins · 03/12/2012 13:10
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