please be gentle with me, this is my first post in this topic. i have 4 dc's, the eldest boy will be 14 in a few months. we live in a horrible area, and he is friends (if thats what you call it) with some really vile children. there are 3 in particular who i detest (not going in to why, but anti social behaviour comes in to it) whenever he hangs around with these children, he seems to come out with attitude in every other word, and behaves badly.
tonight, i told him to be in by 8pm as its bloody freezing, and i was going out. his uncle was looking after him and the other dc's. he came in, grabbed his food and then went out again saying he was staying at his friends house. this friend is one i have forbidden him from staying with because he is horrible (truly horrible, causes lots of problems around here). he refused to come home, spoke to me really badly. i went to the cinema as my best friend had booked the tickets, and i wasnt going to let him spoil it as it was a gift from her for helping her out recently. i told him that if he wasnt home by the time i got in, i would get the police to go and fetch him out. i phoned him as i came out of the cinema, and told him he had 20 minutes to get home. after much arguing he did. i have now told him he is grounded until i decide otherwise, have taken his xbox off him, changed his facebook password and gone into his phone to get all his friends numbers so that i have them if i need them at any time. am i being too harsh on him?
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CherryMonster · 18/11/2012 00:59
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