DD is 13 and in year 8. Friendships have always been a slightly tricky area (not helped by her having Attachment Disorder) but since going to Secondary school and especially now in year 8 she always seems to be the third person in a world full of pairs or friends. She is also her own worst enemy at times - she over reacts, argues and gets easily frustrated with people so quite quickly falls out with her friends. Every day at the moment feels like I'm in a teen soap opera. All her accounts of the day (every aspect) are full of hyperbole and exaggeration and she clearly inhabits a world where even people 'looking at you' wrongly is some kind of grave offence. She'll have one better day and then down it all tumbles again and I am fairly emotionally worn by it all.
Anyone else facing the same? Can we stand firm together...? How much do you react to and how much do you just listen, make the right noises, sympathise and try to move them on...? When does this start to improve?!
Or has your daughter made it through the other side...? Do they eventually find good, strong, sustainable friendships? Some support or reassurance would be great to hear right now :( MPD
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So frustrated with - yet heart aching for - DD (13) who just can't seem to make and keep friends
misspollysdolly · 06/11/2012 21:19
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