As name change suggests I desperately need some perspective on what is appropriate in terms of boundaries for a 12 yo girl. She's not my dd, but I have significant caring responsibilities ( I am family and look after her for days at a time). She is a strongwilled girl, looks about 16 but is in Year 8 and is 12 and 3 months.
So, to help me, would you tell me what you would be happy let your 12 yo dd do with respect to:
Sleepovers at friends - e.g.staying over Fri night and Sat night at a friends house.
Make up/clothes - how much, what would you let them wear/not wear.
Facebook etc - how much, what limits, posting pictures etc
Politeness/courtesy to family - e.g. do you sanction shouting?
I probably veer to the too strict end of the spectrum, but for example, I don't think 2 seepovers at the weekend is appropriate. Likewise posting pictures of herself on facebook. Her mum struggles at times and admits she is a handful, and I think it should be reigned in a bit.
Help! I genuinely would be interested in what behaviour/boundaries you think are acceptable.
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Straw poll, what do you think is appropriate for 12 yo dd
perspective · 20/09/2010 07:59
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