I have a daughter who is 12 and I am finding life stressful with her.We don't have a supportive family, that can help with practical things (ie babysitting). I have another child who is younger.
So, now I've put you in the picture I'd like some advice.
When is a reasonable age to expect them (after some nagging!) to pick up their clothes off the floor?
To put stuff in the dishwasher?
She does nothing at all to help me.
I feel like I am just here to tidy up, pay for her clothes, clean etc.
When I was her age I was quite poor. I think I actually feel a bit jealous of her and I get so angry with her.
I do love her but I would like some support and advice.
I am thinking of when she is 16 I will say, I will not pick up your clothes, or make your bed. Do you think that is a good idea?
I am such a pushover and don't know how to improve the situation. The way she talks to me is awful as well and it makes me feel so sad, but she can't see that.
I feel like I am trying to buy her things to like me often, as I didn't have new things when I was her age, as I was in foster care.
Her Dad will back me up and she won't speak to him the way she talks to me, but when he is at work she plays up.
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not even a teenager yet (12)and she's driving me arrghhhh!
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bluesky4 · 20/08/2010 14:12
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