DS1 is nearly 11. We said he could have a mobile in Year 6, as he will be walking to school and starting to go out on his own with friends a bit more.
I want to get him gradually ready for the much greater independence he will have when he starts senior school in a year.
DH & I agreed that we need to 'start as we mean to go on' in terms of rules, so i thought I'd ask the collective wisdom of MN for your tips and advice about mobile phone rules/responsibility etc
So, e.g.
- who pays PAYG cost - out of pocket ,money, or earned etc?
- When is mobile usage allowed e.g. home/weekends
- 'rules' about texting vs. calling parents (e.g. I find texting is often used by kids as a means of avoiding difficult situations - or for lies!)
- rules such as ignore phones if with the family at a meal/ no texting at the table etc?
I'd love to hear your suggestions. It seems better to get the rules laid down at the start, rather than making them up as we go along...