12yo DD has asked if I can drive her and 3 friends to the beach (40-50 mins drive away ish), where they will meet another 4/5 friends who are being taken by another unpaid taxi parent. They will spend the day there alone and then we'll pick them up again later in the afternoon. I have no objection to ferrying them about (said beach is about 5 mins down the road from my mum's, so could have a lovely day with her), and the beach is a relatively safe one with shallow water and lifeguard. BUT, it's an unfamiliar area to my DD and her friends and I'm just not sure about leaving them there. Just wondering really whether I'm being overprotective, she's my youngest so I do tend to baby her a bit .
My best friend has also offered my almost-14yo DS some work experience (she works in an MP's office, atm he thinks wants to work in politics or journalism) which would involve him commuting up to Westminster every day for a week at the end of the summer hols. It's not a horrendous journey (train journey of around 80 mins followed by 1 stop on the tube or a 20min walk) and it's one he's done before with me or DH but never alone. She starts work at 10 so he would avoid the main rush hour. Do you think it's ok for him to do this?
Both already get public bus to school and to meet friends in town 10 mins away so are quite independent btw.
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