DD1 does quite well at school and is on course for decent GCSEs next year.
She's suddenly started insisting that she's going to leave after her GCSEs and become a jockey. DH trains horses and I've always worked in the business, but no amount of us talking to her about the realism of the industry is getting through. The facts are that she's just not a good enough rider and is already too big to be a jockey and her leaving school at 16 will see her working in a stable, mucking out and not much more. The unfortunate facts of our industry are that those who start in stables at 16 are rarely promoted beyond the lower jobs and are viewed as having bolted school at the earliest opportunity.
She has shown great promise at the breeding side of horses and could get on some fantastic schemes if she sticks out A-levels, but she's adamant she's leaving. I'm convinced this has more to do with living what she sees as the carefree and fun life of some of the youngsters she has met through our business.
She's not very mature (a very young 15) and I feel it would be disastrous if she leaves school at 16 because she's just not emotionally ready for independent life away from home, but she refuses to acknowledge that it could be anything but brilliant.
How do I convince her that she would be far better off to stay at school until she's 18? I would never try to force university upon her if she didn't want to go, but she will no way be ready to support herself at 16 and should stay at school (and living at home) until 18 at least.
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GrumpyOldHorsewoman · 19/07/2010 13:12
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