I'm sure i'm just being really oversensitive but this has been getting to me recently (probably the hormones and some insecurities i need to sort out for myself!!!).
Every time my step daughter to be comes over my partner seems to reminisce with her about what him, his ex and she used to do together. I'm sure its just to try and engage with her but its doing my nut a bit.
It makes me feel like an outsider, like he's thinking about his old relationship rather than moving on and creating new joint memories. i don't feel like I can join in at all with the conversations etc.
He also asks her how her mum is. Sure he is just being lovely and caring.
not sure how to react so i just ignore it although sometimes it does make me grumpy.
Grrrr. there i've got it off my chest! Anyone else feel like this?
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EmilyD · 16/09/2009 13:18
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