Hi, I'm looking for honest advice on my situation.
Been with my DP 2.5 years. He's nearly divorced and we're hoping to move on together.
His marriage ended 4 years ago, his wife left him. She had an affair. The affair ended 2 years ago. She then decided she wanted DP back. He didn't want her back and told her he'd met someone else.
DP has a DD. I think she's 8, not sure. I've never met her.
DP's wife will not let me meet her. Although we want to move on with our lives, the fact that I haven't met his DD is an obvious barrier to doing so, and now we're just drifting aimlessly along.
He doesn't want to upset his wife. He wants her permission for me to meet DD.
What if she never gives her permission?
How much longer should I give this?
Is anyone else in this position?
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foolio · 26/08/2009 13:52
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