I am totally loved up with Dp. i have 2 children and so does he. all our children are similar ages so i thought it'd all work out perfectly, the children would all play together and it'd be easy.
he see's his kids every tuesday, every other wednesday and every other weekend.
my ex has/had mine every other weekend.
we managed to work it out so we'd both have the children on the same weekend and have a weekend just us.
if he doesn't have the children he is at mine.
here's the problem. except i don't knwo what it is, whether its me being neurotic and wierd or if its him or the kids or what.
basically the children live about an hour away. during the week he has to go back to his to have them as obviously it wouldn't be fair to bring them to mine as they have school.
but he doesn't bring them down at the weekends either. I have only ever met them twice and we've been together 8 months.
now initially it was probably my fault. i got a bit freaked out by the prospect of being step mum. but now even when i hint at him bringing them down or that we all go and do something together there is some reason why he can't. they have some club/party to attend.
Part of me is worrying that maybe they just dont like me? that he doesn't want me around his kids? he doesn't want my children around his (i'd kinda understand that as DS is autistic so a bit of a handfull)
Now whilst im about 99.9% certain that its not any of those things and that it is actually just because they are busey i can't help but get a bit argh about it.
tell me im being a noboid or do you think maybe there is more behind it than just my imagination?
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Mamazon · 18/07/2009 14:09
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