met dh when my dd was a baby. she has known him as daddy all her life - (she knows he isnt). we married and have had 3 further children. Dh has not adopted dd (she is now 16). We never use the term step father, he is her dad. thought about adoption in the past but as the natural father is on birth certificate - didnt want the hassle. plus i heard that i would have to adopt her too , and i didnt like that idea. recently been thinking of the legal ramifications of this decision. ie dh having no legal 'hold' over dd, and problems if ,god forbid, anything should happen to me. at the moment we have no wils - we keep saying we must do it - but as ever in busy families things get put on hold. Is it too late to adopt her now? what would happen if we did go down this route? any body experienced anythibg similar? thanks in advance x
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