Because this is DSD's final year.
I know people will think I'm unreasonable, but dh has paid her maintenance for the last three years, and she hasn't had the common courtesy to contact him at all in that time. She doesn't answer his calls or texts, doesn't respond to his messages, hasn't thanked us for the money we sent her for her 21st.
We have no idea why she has cut us/him out of her life.
She was supposed to let dh know that his former father-in-law had died just before Christmas, she promised her mum she would, but she didn't. ExW was a bit upset he didn't go to the funeral, he would have gone if he had known.
I wondered if she was trying to stir it between them, or if it was simply a 'can't be arsed' thing.
So we have agreed that when she finishes her course, the maintenance will end. We really could do without that expense right now.
But DH is being a bit namby pamby about trying to find out when she finishes. I'm trying to plan when we can afford some house maintenance work.
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