Advice needed please. DP and I are v in love but penniless. It makes sense on all levels for us to move in together. My house is just about big enough to accommodate all the DC. However, I?m trying unsuccessfully to get my head around the logistics of it. He lives 30 miles away, has 3 DC, 10, 15 and 16. I have 2 DC 13 and 15. We both have our respective children every other weekend.
My problem is his children have lots of activities on a weekend + sleep overs etc with friends, obviously based around where they live at the moment.
He feels he still needs to keep a base there as it is the usual taxiing backwards and forwards to football, parties with gaps in between. If he came to live with me and gave up his house how can we get around the logistics of it all? My friend said his kids should carve out a new social life at my end of the world for their time here, but I think that?s unreasonable to expect them to do that.
I dearly want him to move in with me but need help to think this through. How did others deal with this situation?
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If he moves in - the logistics of it all hurt my head. Help needed
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coldupnorth · 14/04/2009 00:45
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