Dh ex just called. Apparently over easter she wants us to have dss one week and she will have him the other.
I work from home, he and my son do nothing but bicker and fight, which dss then uses to get my son into trouble and whispers things to him to get him to do naughty things (my son is two years younger, not quite four) and at the moment becuase he is very angry about his parents split and acting out, every visit here is a fraught stressful nightmare.
I may sound awful but I really dont want to do it. He has only been in my life for 7 months and I really dont want to have to look after him for a week running. I pay for everything cause partner is a student and I dread his visits, as his mum openly admits to buying him everything he wants to make him happy so he expects the same here.
I understand he is having a hard time, there has been masses of upheaval in his little life and it isnt surprising that he is angry so am trying to make one on one time with him to help the situation and am being as understanding as one can when faced with a 6 year old who stands at the top of the stairs screaming for thirty minutes when he doesnt get the dvd he wants because it was his brothers turn but I cant do it - I really feel like I have had enough at the moment.
So stressed with work and dp is putting loads of pressure on to do it. TBH I was having serious doubts about whether or not I could carry on as a step so this is a nightmare.
HELP. If i am being an arse please tell me - I can take it but I just dont think I can cope with another week after the weekend and lst couple of days which have been utterly hellish.
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prettyfly1 · 02/04/2009 15:57
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