Hi,
I've never posted on the step-parenting thread before, so I hope I'm not intruding. I'd really value some advice from some seasoned Mum+Step-Mums...
Basically, I have acquired two young SDC's (2+3) and have recently found out I'm expecting my first baby (due end of August.)
I have met DP's children, and we have a great time, although I haven't seen them for quite some time now,as I work away and DP's ex has decided that she doesnt want me to see them(Am hoping she'll come round soon!) DP will be moving in with me this month. We will quite far away from his children, and so he will only have weekend access (right now he sees them as and when-they have no set pattern). I do feel guilty about this, but at the same time, I need some support from him too -I hope that doesn't make me sound selfish.
I'm just concerned about his kids, and how this is all going to affect them...not just the new Daddy routine, but also the fact they are having a new half brother or sister. Especially as they have not been allowed to get to know me
Are there any childrens books, or do any of you have any advice/ ideas on how DP can go about making these changes as easy as possible for his little ones? I would really value some tips and advice.
Also, if anyone has any advice RE: the ex that would be great too. Her not letting me see them means that DP and I are forced to apend our weekends apart (him travelling 200miles to see them & having them at his Mum's, while I'm here). I would love to go up with him sometimes, or even bring them to us every now and again. I work with children, so it's not as though I'm going to be terrible. It would just be nice if I was allowed to get to know them, and them me before there is a new baby...It also worries me that this will affect their relationship with their new sibling.
Sorry this is a bit lengthy, and thanks for reading!
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Any advice for explainig new baby to young DSC's?
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ameNbump · 06/03/2009 13:45
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