I am in a relationship, have ds from previous and 2 dd with dp. I find i am hyper sensitive to the way dp is with ds.
Itrust him, he is good kind and loving but little things drive me crazy with paranoia.
Ds is the most hard work out the kids, could be age(4) or the fact that he is male!! or maybe his dads genes cos he is a twisted shite!! no harm to him but he is! I find ds the hardest but i still find myself critical of dp when i think he is unfair or too hard on him. I so want to be a 'united front' as such but i can't when i don't agree with some of the stuff dp does.
Posted earlier elsewhere and responses prompted this thread. Post was..
i had a huge row with dp this morning as he insisted on trying to give ds(4) dd's(2) leftover cereal. Ds was not having it and kicked up a fuss whinging and crying, but despite my saying don't be ridiculous thats horrible, dp then added some of the leftover stuff to some new stuff but old stuff soggy so ds wouldn't touch it.
I was furious, dp said it was a waste but why should ds suffer when dd wastes something, in the end up dp wasted more as the mixed bowl didn't get eaten. Dp remains in a bad mood currently and i have told him he is definitely wrong on this one. Is he? Would you like to eat your siblings leftovers?? I'm really surprised dp thinks this is ok.
Can i have people in similar situations thoughts. I've been with dp since ds was a 10 mnths and ds has regular contact with his dad (incase this info helps).
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6inchnipples · 15/02/2009 15:41
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