DP's close relative, recently out of hospital; she's on her own so DP volunteers to go and stay with her for a few days while she recovers.
Originally he wanted me, our baby dd and DSD to come too. But relative's house is tiny and we'd be crammed like sardines. Hardly conducive to restful recovery.
Relative said to DP she'd rather baby and I didn't come, which is fair enough. If I was her I'd feel the same.
But DP has still taken DSD with him. And this is what annoys me. Why couldn't he leave her with her mum and just go to relative's on his own? Why is it okay to leave DD with me and not see her for three days but he can't possibly leave DSD? Why can't he read between the lines and understand that convalescing relative actually just wants him there and no kids?
I spoke to DP who is at relative's place now and lo and behold DSD had a screaming tantrum over the iPad tonight. So I bet relative is over the moon at that. But as long as DP gets to bring DSD, never mind what anyone else might need, right?
It's really annoyed me. I'm too scared to put this in AIBU, but: AIBU.
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HallowedVera · 31/08/2014 23:17
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