DP and I have 8 yr old DSS every weekend. DSS's mum is a Disney mum and lets DSS pick his own bed time, sleep on the couch if he feels like it, doesn't tuck him in, encourages him to stay up all night if he feels sick etc.
DP and I have bed times, read a book, give DSS kisses and tuck him in. His behaviour is getting progressively worse because he has expectations learnt from his mum.
He uses every excuse in the book and is getting up 6 to 10 times, up until 3am. Last night we had 6 separate excuses.
He has a night light, he has soft music or relaxation sounds if needed. The room is definitely his space - his posters, toys, blankets.
We've been living with this set up for 2 years so it's not something he's only just put onto him.
Any other advice on keeping him in bed or without alienating an 8 year old who gets exactly what they want at one house and hates that rules exist at the other house.
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Sleep issues with 8 yr old DSS.
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Redshoes7 · 31/08/2014 00:48
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