DPs ex has told the kids a few times that she wants to see me. (We've never met or know eachother.) I've told DP I'm fine with this as understand how she might want to know the person her kids spend time with. DP told ex I'd be really happy to go for a coffee but she was incredulous at that "why would I want to go for a coffee with her?".
Now almost every time I see the kids (6&4) they tell me "mummy wants to meet you" / "mummy says she wants to see you" etc. I always say "well that would be nice" and then mention it to DP. I've suggested he give her my phone number and then the ball is in her court as I don't want him "arranging" a meeting between us...
Interested in other stories of how you met the ex and how it went.
In this case I fear it won't be great as she's not over their split and says age inappropriate things to the kids. I don't much care for the sound of her but want to do the right thing by DPs kids.
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What sort of relationship do you have with your DPs ex?
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