BM is saying that OH has changed in the last few months, never said in her text because of me but when we came home and OH was on his laptop he mentioned BM had written a status which was obviously pointed towards him, I typed in her name on mine (not friends) and saw I've been blocked.
It's obvious she's got a problem with me. I have seen her twice, each time been polite, said hello and helped gather up DSS stuff. I am not always here when OH has DSS, it's important they have time together.
OH and her split when SS was 2, he is now 7. She has gone on to have another child with someone else and split with his in February. When she's single she is ever no nice to OH and then when she's seeing or in a relationship with someone she makes it hard. I work with friends of her, so she would get information about me however they wouldn't know me well enough to know enough. We are very different people. OH has had relationships before but I wonder if this time she realises this is it and that's why she's being difficult.
I'm worried that she will turn DSS against me. I struggle as it is being a 'step-parent' and I don't think I could cope if DSS then turned into hating me. OH knows I'm worried.
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MulberryWillow · 27/08/2014 10:15
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