Well today we are having dsd. OH instantly in bad mood. I'm trying to write a list of school stuff we need he's being awkward ask him to order something off eBay he won't.
We had a lovely day yesterday and today will be foul. As others recommended I've suggested counselling, sitting down and talking to her you name it.
Her mother is now making her come which is almost worse as she hates it. She will get in the car and not speak. She will ask to go home all day unless she gets bought xyz and OH will be in a foul mood. This normally gets taken out on me. Me and dsd don't have a problem at all.
I've just blown my stack at him and said if he's talks to me like crap once today when she's here he can take her out I'm not having them in the house with me playing referee and entertaining her.
He insists on picking her up as it's 'his duty' when she doesn't want to be here and they won't even speak more than direct questions and yes or no answers.
I'm taking her for the rest of the uniform in the week I've had to get the list from the school cos her useless mother thinks they never had one. So that's me on maternity with spd having a whole day of her to help them out- it's for her I want her to start new school with the right stuff but ffs what is wrong with these people?
If something was so miserable on all sides why do they do it? It does no one any favours at all it's so pointless.
I'm going to try and talk to her when we go for the uniform I promised her lunch out for a good school report but I could scream I'm not having this Infront of the baby so they need to grow up.
Anyone have any ideas other than the obvious of making this better? She's selfish and unhelpful and he can't articulate he's hurt by the behaviour and it goes round and round and round.
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Elizabeth120914 · 17/08/2014 09:40
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