As previously posted dsd has gone from every weekend all weekend to every other Sunday- her choice. She's bored here and basically doesn't want to come.
She has the big bedroom in the house while our baby is having the box room. She hasn't stayed over in two months or even gone in the room.
The room is full of toys and junk - not age appropriate and none of it has ever been played with even when she did come she just watches the tv.
I really need some of the room for storage. I'm happy for her to keep the room but it's 15ft by 15 and the babies room is 6ft by 8 and I really need to re-arrange.
OH says just chuck the stuff out that's not being used he's sick of the mess as she doesn't want to come anymore and it's all un used when she does. MIL has a room there too which she also wants to clear out.
I've said I'm not throwing any of it out as I'm a) not getting the blame and b) don't think it's right to go through it and choose what goes. He's now wanting to do it himself..
Question is what do u think? I don't want her to feel she doesn't have a room but it's the biggest in the house and it's not ideal to be left as is if it's not being used anymore.
On the day she comes I make a point of organising going out somewhere but she always wants to go home as soon as the activity is complete she doesn't even want to watch tv with us or stay for tea unless it's a meal out so it's a bit awkward with OH as he's fairly upset about it...
I also don't want to bring her straight here next Sunday and get her to clear the room out for the few hours she's here.
Just wonder how to approach it what do u do once they turn teenager and don't really want to come?
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What to do about DSDs room..?
Elizabeth120914 · 27/07/2014 17:24
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