Apologies for back story here. I am dissappointed in myself, not sure how to deal with my feelings and wondered if any other step parents have felt the same. Dh and I have no kids together, he has three almost adults, two of whom have always refused to acknowledge me (not ow and they have never been able to give a reason to dh), one who does but is slowly adopting the behaviour of the other two.
Mine on the other hand welcomed dh and though not perfect by any means, are loving and affectionate to him. Their own dad hardly sees them, his choice.
My dd yesterday flew into what is now a war zone. Instead of texting her to see if she was ok, all dh was worried about was his own dd arriving safely at her destination locally which was a twenty minute train journey.
It hurts. Why? Why should I expect him to love my dd? Is this why second marriages fail?
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My own jealousy killing my marriage
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