I have been dating a man for about 7 months now and he has a son who has just turned 8. I was in no way involved in the break up of the marriage as I met him 4 years after the divorce. His son lives with his mother (the ex wife) and sees his dad almost every weekend and 3 to 5 tea times a week.
I met his son after 4 months and I don't have children of my own (I am infertile) so it is all new to me.
Yesterday I was around for tea with my BF and his son and it was just a normal meal. We were chatting and his son asked if he could call me mum. His dad stepped in and said it wouldn't be fair on his real mum.
I don't know what to make of all this. Is it a bad sign that the son has asked this so early? I know his mum would hate it and probably stop contact if she knew. I am seeing them both tomorrow and I don't know how to act now.
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muchtooshy · 16/07/2014 17:38
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