Just wonder how others find this topic..
Was at dinner tonight and OH starts talking about who dsd looks like (carbon copy of mother nothing like oh or his family) and then about how she's got traits like her mother etc.
I'm biting my lip at this point don't like thinking about her I can Seperate her from dsd in my mind quite happily.. Dsds behaviour, manners and many other atributes leave much to be desired but her mother is at home on any episode of benefits street and makes my skin crawl..! They weren't in a relationship when she was born or during the pregnancy and contact with dsd didn't appear till she was 5...
He then starts going on about how our baby due in September might be similar .. Well I felt like I had been stabbed. The idea of ex in a sentence with my baby made me feel horrible. Didn't say anything but still stewing now.
Pointless maybe just wondered if this is a normal reaction? How do U manage with these sorts of comparisons the dsd thing il have to suck up but the connection to HER is ewwww !
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