Will keep this brief I don't get maintenance from my ex for my children, try my hardest call CSA regularly etc and debt it mounting up but after 6 years still not got a penny and to be honest I don't think I ever will, I have accepted this!
I'm pregnant by my bf and we have spoke about moving in together but I'm really bothered by a few comments he made, he got very shirty with me saying I need to get maintenance for my DC's and I would have to ask EXH for this, I have asked! he says no, if CSA can't get it from him then I have no chance!
When I pressed further on this issus it became apprant that he feels strongly that he should not have to support my DC's if we live together! I do work part time but will soon be on maternity!
So clearly if we live together I will lose a huge amount of my income in benfits and sll my childcare allowance and my wages would only just cover the weekly food shop and nothing else!
I'm really concerned about this attitude! Yes it would be fantastic if my ex supported his children but surley if you become a blended/step family isn't it just expected that you take on the whole family and live as one on the household income ?
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If you don't get maintenace for your DC's did your new partner just accept this and take on the responsibility that you came as a package?
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Barbs111 · 03/07/2014 22:34
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