I thought our issues with her were coming to an end as she was becoming an adult but at aged 18 I thought dp should stop giving her hand outs now and let her stand on her own two feet. He however is so stuck in the mindset of dd asks dd gets its just an impossible habit to break! The worst thing is we were getting on well in our relationship having been through a rough patch and now I find out he's lying to me and I can't even confront him about it because the reason I know is I checked his phone which puts me firmly in the wrong! So all I can do now is bite my tongue as he blatantly lies about telling dsd she needs to buckle down and save for things she wants (that we really can't afford to give her) when I know he as usual just handed it over to her. So angry just needed to vent!! I need to just forget it for my own sanity and move on from it and maybe learn my lesson about looking at his phone don't I?:-/
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