Hello
Its my 1st time on here, so please be gently with me.
I met my husband 10 years ago, his wife left him with two small children. They have always lived with us and we have brought them up to be lovely children.
The problem is ex wife, she is a very controlling person. She is telling son, 16 that he should move in with her and change college etc. She lives 40 miles away.
He has always lived in this area, and she lives miles away. He has been staying with her over summer holidays, the last time he came home, he said she was pressurizing him to move in with her. He said he is scared of upsetting her, but said he wants to stay here.
We have never been on good speaking terms with her, because she is so difficult. We have never stopped her seeing the children, she gets ideas in her head, then after a few weeks gets fed up.
We are scared that if son moves with her, he will mess up his education and social relationships.
No one in family wants to get involved, so I am worried in what to do next!!!!
Does anyone know if there are independent counsellors my son can speak to? So he doesn't feel pressurised into doing something he is not happy about.
We live in South Yorkshire area.
Thanks
Wobbleangel
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wobbleangel · 21/08/2013 18:52
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