Things at home aren't too good at the moment. I think I posted in NADM's deleted thread about DP's ex insisting that DP's time with his two DD are just the three of them. She doesn't want our two children (DD and DS) included despite being siblings and certainly doesn't want me included either.
So I suggested to DP maybe if I took our two kids and myself off to stay at my mum's on one of the nights he has them then it would be just the three of them as my 2 ds from a previous go and stay with their dad EOW and I'd also get to spend time with my mum.
DP said it was my choice. So Friday that is what I did. I came back on sat and DSD1 said: 'What are you doing back this is my time with dad!'
To cut the long story short she cried the place down because we were back, shouting at DP that when DD, DS and I are there he doesn't love them as much because mum says.
I spent most of Saturday holed upstairs out of the way.
I'm at the end of my tether with it all. Ex insists that DP take them out to do fun things all weekend too minus us. It has become a huge financial strain on us as they constantly expect to be doing something.
I've tried broaching it with DP but he keeps insisting it'll all fall in-line eventually and ex is going to have to accept we're also part of his life.
I don't see it somehow. I feel so deflated.
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KarmaBitch · 24/04/2013 10:35
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