Have name changed for this but am a regular (poo cube & Angela Hernandez my personal faves).
DH was married before when he was 20, they had a little boy, then a godawful breakup and never spoke again apart from through the CSA. He never saw his son again.
Cue me entering his life 10 years later, we now have 2 DDs aged 5 and 3. He is having counselling about contacting his estranged son who will be 18 next year.
So far we haven't told the girls about their half brother, but would like to very soon. Just wondering if any of you had experience of telling your DCs about half siblings, or equally important, have you been on receiving end of this news and found out about previously unknown family members.
Still trying to decide whether we tell the girls now and be honest that we don't know whether estranged son will want to meet us all, or wait until we have tried to contact him and then tell girls when we have something more concrete to tell them about him. (As likely questions will include Is he coming to live here, does he like Rice Krispies, will he watch Dora with me, etc etc).
Any advice/experience to share? Thanks.
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Telling small children about estranged half-brother
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Whomovedthewipes · 03/04/2013 10:13
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