Dh and I have been married for nearly 25 years.When we married I was a widow with dc aged 13 and 17 and he was a single parent ft dad with dc aged 15 17 and 18.His first wife had left him for a much younger man and moved abroad.
Over the years everyone got along really well.The boys-his two and my ds became very close friends.My dd was the youngest and had her own interests/friends but liked her step sibs and enjoyed their company.My dsd was 17 when we married and seemed very enthusiastic about the marriage although she chose to live with her grandmother so she could finish 6th form at her school.
All five dc went to university.Dsd became distant but worked hard and achieved 3 degrees including a Phd.She married[all 5 married]and moved to Canada where we visited her 7 years ago when her ds was born.
All the others had dc too.
I was dx with breast cancer in 2006. While I was having chemotherapy and was very poorly dsd and her family visited[at our expense and her insistence].She was unbelievably horrible to me and said some wicked things.After 24 hours she left [obviously pre-arranged as a friend picked them up].Since then she has not communicated or responded to communications from us though she is in sporadic touch with her brothers.If they ask why she has cut us off she will not answer and cuts them off for months at a time.Her ds has been dx with ASD and we would love to be supportive.my dh is very very distressed by the situation.he will soon be 77 and is desperate to hear from her.
I just dont know what to do.
Any suggestions please.
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thegreylady · 07/03/2013 19:26
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